Mr. Vins Blog

Mid of Summer…Mid of Summer.. And I was upset…. i was upset leaning on the bridge.. The oldie ask..What happen child..!! I said..!! She hurt me… I loved her..!! Oldie smiled… Oldie smiled and said.. You.. You even don’t know how to love..!! You.. You generation even don’t know how to love..!!! You only set your status available… but are you really available for them ? Yes .. you are available… You are available on facebook.. Yes .. you are available… You are available on tinder.. but are you really available for them ? For love .. first you have to become available for them..!! you … your generation…!! meet someone new… Meet someooonnne neewww….!! Exchange numbers & late night conversations… Like dislike and question answer game..!! Ask out & coffee… Ask out and date..!! Date and dinner… dinner and sex..!! Sex and lose interest..!!! and then… meet someone new…!! Exchange numbers & late night conversations… For love.. you have to really love someone..!! You.. y...

I woke up that morning.. she was not there.. She just left a small note.. “sorry” was her last word..!!! Okay .. Okay…!! To all guys..there outside… A good girl, is really hard to find… Heart..hearts are broken everyday No matter what you do.. No matter what you say It hurts so bad.. It hurts so bad It makes you feel so sad You cry, You cry and cry Over each one of her lies.. her lies…!! Love..!! Love is not like before Money is all what they are looking for Love..!! Love is not like before Money is all what they are looking for.. They smiled at you, because.. They are alone.. they are confuse.. They will say sorry later .. they will say “ just friends” later They will give you “wrong signals”.. they will say “You will get another” later.. They will make you second option.. They will make you another weekend option.. Love.. Love is not like before Money is all what they are looking for A lot of guys are blind.. yes blind They don’t know which girl is kind And when they feel the...

Love.. Love.. Love..!! Love is powerful, love is strong But if its only you, you feel so wrong..!! My emotions are strong and my emotions are true It hurts like hell when its only you..!! I read somewhere that day.. The worst thing a girl can do … is make a guy fall for her.. when she has no intention of catching him…!! Yes she did same.. yes she did same..!! Yes she did the worst..!! What should I do? I want do die.. I want to die I dont think I can look into her eye..!! What is wrong with me? I’m a human being What else can I do? I gave it my all… She loves someone else, so here is my fall..!! This is the hardest feeling.. This is the hardest feeling The person you love…Loves someone else..!! I read somewhere that day.. Torn between two… who would you choose? -2 The one that you love… or the one that loves you? I said that day.. One that I love..!! I’m trying really hard not to cry… I think about her every minute of the day she doesnt give a crap, she just want to pla...

Live in relationships in India have been for many years, only the focus has shifted to them recently. With the urban India becoming more open minded and the obvious western influence and students and young professionals moving out of their homes at early age, live in relationships have become even more prevalent. But is it really a good idea? Well, there are many positives for sure. There are no complications compared to the kinds you have in a marriage, as it is not a marriage. You can be in the relationship for as long as you want, and this way you keep it fresh and happy. The bondage of being their with each other for the rest of your life might get heavy on your heart and the slightest provocation or disturbance can bring in that fear. This fear is not there in live in relationships. Less commitments, more comfort, more understanding..!!   The primary reasons behind cohabitation between unmarried couples in India, is due to following reasons: ●      ...

I am not a supporter of RAPIST. I don’t support any dress code for Women. I don’t support unequal rights for women. But I even don’t support Feminism. Because there is one other side of FEMINISM. In June, I wrote a article “ India Hates Women ”, I still agree with my point that in India there are no equal   rights for women. Rape, FEMALE FOETICIDE, Domestic violence  are some example of this… But when we talk about something good, It come with some bad things too… !!! In last few days, I experienced some events, that’s the only reason I am writing this article. Rohtak brave heart girls is one case… I guess now all of us know the truth.  Similarly there are few more events and some discussions with office mates and friends. I knew a number of cases in which Males were the victim in RAPE and Domestic violence. Two days back, when we were discussing about the Women’s right and Feminism, out of five people five were supporting feminism, including three Male. We were...

[ Don’t Assume any story or name real… it’s just to make the article interactive] Short time back, when there was a fight between me and Asmita. She was sweetheart, and she will be my darling always. But during that fight she shouted on me…. You loved me only because you loved my body…!! Actually this strike on mind… although I knew Her words were not true, she also knew.. but anger… it leads  us to these type of situations. Leave that. But I thought is that SEX, for which I loved her? Was that Sex, for which we fall in love? Was it a business Deal, only  for Sex ? No… No… this is definitely not a reason. Reason can unmet needs, similar looks, similarities, opposite attracts, care, security  and many more… And yes definitely many times there are no reasons to fall in love… we just fall in love <3 When I was in college there was a popular question when on my friend usually ask everyone… “ Can someone love someone that much that he allow him/her to have s...

This was a time of summer 2012, I was walking in Mandi House area. I came here for a theatre drama, but unfortunately or may be later I would say fortunately I didn't get ticket. So I just walk towards Latit Kala academy. There was a exhibition from a NGO which was supported by a no. of artist. I met a girl there, she was one of volunteer in that exhibition. ( Whenever I  went for this type of events my main motive always to make more public interaction, because I love to know how people think about certain issues/problems of life,  how they feel when they got upset, I usually do this).  I went forward  and said " Hi" She said " Hello, shalini" I said " Vineet... (with  a pause), so you like paintings and all this artistic stuff?" I know this was a foolish question, but sometime it happen, we have to start with some foolish questions. She said: " Yes, I do paint.. Look... these are my paintings" Painting were good, I don't h...

I was in queue for admission formalities when I saw her first time. She was laughing with her friends, I  didn't  know why? But she looked pretty. This was my first day in new school, I  didn't  know her, but I wanted to know her. XI-D, only one class in the school in which new admissions are permitted. Lucky I was, the pretty  girl was also in same class. Soon we became very good friends. Friends … is it the good word to use for them, who broke your trust. During My college’s first year I met Asmita, she was very beautiful with heart. We were good friends, but each time, I just keep myself somewhat selfish, somewhat aware, somewhat in doubt, that she could also break my trust. Due to which, bad relationship. And soon with our mutual understanding we broke up, I said mutual understanding. But I know this, that broke was only because of me, only because my trust was broken once. Was this broke up fare? What is the mistake of Asmita, only that she wanted to tr...

  I was in metro, its 10:30 pm; I had to catch bus for Kurukshetra. A couple was in front of me, 10:30 … yeah it’s too late and in the city where women is not safe in day light. But this is not a single couple, in cities we can find a number of couples wondering in nights.   A lady trust you, that she is with you in mid night, don’t you think you have to care her extra….!! Not even that time, but also every time. Every time she needs you. Same goes to married couple, a lady leaves her older world, just for you and your world. So it’s your responsibility now that she can easily make adjustments in your world, and without your help it’s impossible. Ohh now please don’t say there is not word like impossible in your dictionary. If this is, please update your dictionary.   And ladies, a guy is with you at 10:30 pm, don’t you think he is taking your responsibility. You can say, “ I can take care myself”. But you also know, in the society where we live, at that time, th...

I was in my 2 nd year of my college, when a classmate said : “ You are a big flirt “. I  couldn't  understand weather it a compliment or comment. But at that time I  couldn't  find. Sometime later, I realize it can be a compliment or comment, depends on how the person’s emotion and mood at that time. Later in college, I get this as a compliment most of time. But I never try to find, that weather I am a flirt or not ? Since now I have time to spent on wisdom and on self development, I can make effort to find this.  This week only when one of my office mate said “ You are flirt ..” ( with a smile :P ). I thought that I should find, why people said that I am a flirt. Although most of time I didn’t try to flirt. Sometime a third person said that you are flirting with her.   We’ve all had that moment . You know, that moment when you’re talking with your friend of the opposite sex, and suddenly a mutual acquaintance comes over and asks if you’re dating. The tw...

Late night office, lots of work pressure, less social life…. I guess this is the story most of MNC now a days. I am also working one of MNC. Someday ago I just come across a very shocking thing. One of my team mate getting mails from ghost. Isn’t shocking..? I am sharing the same story with you…. Please read..!! As always names are changed…!! Asmita opened her mail box and saw a new mail from new person. Hi Asmita, I see you every night sitting in the office till very late. Don’t you have friends? Don’t you want to hang out ?  Don’t you feel like talking to your room mate? You should not sit very late in the office; this is a genuine advice from me. Thanks, Vikas After reading the mail, Asmita was very angry on the sender. She simply deleted the mail and said to herself  “who is he to give me any advice”. Of course anyone do the same. She again got back to her work. After that night, every night Vikas would keep sending her mails and Asmita would simpl...