The Other Side of Feminism

I am not a supporter of RAPIST. I don’t support any dress code for Women. I don’t support unequal rights for women.
But I even don’t support Feminism. Because there is one other side of FEMINISM.

In June, I wrote a articleIndia Hates Women”, I still agree with my point that in India there are no equal  rights for women. Rape, FEMALE FOETICIDE, Domestic violence are some example of this… But when we talk about something good, It come with some bad things too… !!!
In last few days, I experienced some events, that’s the only reason I am writing this article.Rohtak brave heart girls is one case… I guess now all of us know the truth.  Similarly there are few more events and some discussions with office mates and friends. I knew a number of cases in which Males were the victim in RAPE and Domestic violence.
Two days back, when we were discussing about the Women’s right and Feminism, out of five people five were supporting feminism, including three Male. We were supporting till we got familiar with the thought of our female friend. She said: “I will never breast feed my baby, if it’s a boy” “All men are Dogs”   So is it feminism?
Are women so weak that they need something like feminism which aims at destroying the social order for help?

I come back to home, do some study on feminism, recent movements and the ladies involved. As soon as I start my work, of course Wikipedia was the first source.  Wikipedia definition on Feminism:  Feminism is a collection of movements and ideologies aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, cultural, and social rights for women. This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment.

Feminists call this movement as striving for equal rights for women. They keep telling women should be given equal wages as that of men, but what do they mean by equal wages? Can anyone pay more or equal amount of money, just because they are women? Shouldn’t we give more prominence to a person’s capability than gender?
Dear FemiNazis, You will be rewarded for your deeds, and not for your gender. Isn’t asking for more rights absurd when we already have rights given by the government?
 Aren’t pro-women laws being misused by some women? Even you also give a BIG YES as answer.
If they’re really striving for equality, laws which are fair to both men and women needs to be enforced, isn’t it?
If we don’t agree with their thoughts and opinions, or if we oppose them- we are termed as chauvinists.
What sort of movement is this? A movement which makes women hate the entire men community.
It is also true that rapes and sexual violence and other heinous crimes are committed against women, but is it fair to brand all men as rapists? Or all men as dogs?
 If feminists really think like that, then I assume their father and brother are included in the list too.
Recently, I noticed a young feminist’s comment , which said ‘It’s a pay back time; men exploited us since many decades, now it’s our turn” . One of my female friend said once: “I want a Husband whom I can make slave at least 5-10 years and then divorce” So much for equality you see.
Well, this is one aspect of Feminism.
If we carefully look at our country, and it’s feminists; they call our country to be at the top for crimes against women, don’t they? But what does statistics really got to say? Statistics says, US tops the chart for sexual harassment against women.

Just like there is caste divide, feminism is working in a similar manner, creating conflict between two genders. Just like caste based reservations have created a rift between people, the proposal of women reservations too has created rift between the two genders.

How to destroy a nation which is proud of it’s culture and heritage? Exaggerate a problem, victimize a section or gender(that is what feminism is doing) make people fight among themselves in the name of gender or caste. When fight happens among themselves; hatred intensifies, people will be divided, filled with hate towards their own country men. This paves the way for some organizations with a sinister agenda to break the country into many parts. This is the most dangerous aspect of Feminism –‘Breaking India tool’.
A good society should have a euphonious and a balanced environment. Society cannot survive with the clear dominance of one gender. A woman holds this nature with her feminine grace and a man with his masculine grace. Both feminine grace as well as masculine grace is necessary for a society to be in a state of concordance. Feminism or any extremism aims at destroying this state.

 No Offence.


STOP EVE TEASING. STOP RAPE. STOP FEMALE FOETICIDE.


But also STOP BLAMEING ALL MEN. Because all MEN ARE NOT RAPIST.



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