Mr. Vins Blog

I am not a supporter of RAPIST. I don’t support any dress code for Women. I don’t support unequal rights for women. But I even don’t support Feminism. Because there is one other side of FEMINISM. In June, I wrote a article “ India Hates Women ”, I still agree with my point that in India there are no equal   rights for women. Rape, FEMALE FOETICIDE, Domestic violence  are some example of this… But when we talk about something good, It come with some bad things too… !!! In last few days, I experienced some events, that’s the only reason I am writing this article. Rohtak brave heart girls is one case… I guess now all of us know the truth.  Similarly there are few more events and some discussions with office mates and friends. I knew a number of cases in which Males were the victim in RAPE and Domestic violence. Two days back, when we were discussing about the Women’s right and Feminism, out of five people five were supporting feminism, including three Male. We were...

This was a time of summer 2012, I was walking in Mandi House area. I came here for a theatre drama, but unfortunately or may be later I would say fortunately I didn't get ticket. So I just walk towards Latit Kala academy. There was a exhibition from a NGO which was supported by a no. of artist. I met a girl there, she was one of volunteer in that exhibition. ( Whenever I  went for this type of events my main motive always to make more public interaction, because I love to know how people think about certain issues/problems of life,  how they feel when they got upset, I usually do this).  I went forward  and said " Hi" She said " Hello, shalini" I said " Vineet... (with  a pause), so you like paintings and all this artistic stuff?" I know this was a foolish question, but sometime it happen, we have to start with some foolish questions. She said: " Yes, I do paint.. Look... these are my paintings" Painting were good, I don't h...

  I was in metro, its 10:30 pm; I had to catch bus for Kurukshetra. A couple was in front of me, 10:30 … yeah it’s too late and in the city where women is not safe in day light. But this is not a single couple, in cities we can find a number of couples wondering in nights.   A lady trust you, that she is with you in mid night, don’t you think you have to care her extra….!! Not even that time, but also every time. Every time she needs you. Same goes to married couple, a lady leaves her older world, just for you and your world. So it’s your responsibility now that she can easily make adjustments in your world, and without your help it’s impossible. Ohh now please don’t say there is not word like impossible in your dictionary. If this is, please update your dictionary.   And ladies, a guy is with you at 10:30 pm, don’t you think he is taking your responsibility. You can say, “ I can take care myself”. But you also know, in the society where we live, at that time, th...

Today I was at Metro Station, Noida City Center. While I was waiting for the train, I saw a lady was crying. She had tears in her eyes, no one have time to see those tears, because its office time and everyone is busy in their own life. I came today 15-20 minutes early, so I guess I notice because I was not in hurry. I was watching her, and as the train came, everyone left the platform  I  asked the Lady : " Aunty , are you coming ". She said : " No ", and I left the place, but I wanted to talk  her, and in the train I realize that I should talk her. I changed train at next station and came back to Noida city center , just in  a hope that she will be there. Till that time 2 train already gone. I came back to platform and I saw the lady was there. I knew that this was not my business and I shouldn't talk anyone, but I don't know what happen at that time, I just felt I should talk her. Till the while I reached to her, another metro train had left. I asked  ...

Family.. I know its a noun which means  A group consisting of parents and children living  together in a household.   But do you feel, it is  family.  To me Family   means that they're always  going to be in your life no matter what. Family    means that they love you for who you are and will always stick by your side through thick and thin, dark , handsome or not... in each condition. A family will never leave you hanging. A family is a pack, a bond, a relation, they understand your feelings, your need without you express them.  This is your small world in this big world. A family: A place of unconditional love, respect,  understanding, forgiveness, tradition and a lots more.. from heart. No plans, no traps, no mind games.. here all  things are from heart,  from the bottom of heart.  How do you define family values? In our home family values are rules or ideals that, as a family, we agree to live by and s...