Mr. Vins Blog

We were in a cafe in CP, Delhi. We were discussing about some get together/parties, A sudden response from a friend(lady), across the table, in that party, you were over friendly. Actually the word was not over friendly this some thing more negative. I was shocked, everyone were looking for my response. I couldn't speak even a word, I guess how can some one  speak in this type of situation.But some how I and lady just made the moment comfortable. But I always summarize my day, I always summarize my bad things, right now am not saying that this is my bad thing. I know I am more jolly, more friendly. But I didn't find any bad i this. Because of this I met a number of new friends, a number of new mentors.  But still something is wrong, may be I am over reacting on a small thing, but sometime its good to analyze yourself, and thanks to god, I have a team of good friends who always behave like my mentor/adviser. This was a group chat on Facebook and whats App, I asked them : ...

This was a time of summer 2012, I was walking in Mandi House area. I came here for a theatre drama, but unfortunately or may be later I would say fortunately I didn't get ticket. So I just walk towards Latit Kala academy. There was a exhibition from a NGO which was supported by a no. of artist. I met a girl there, she was one of volunteer in that exhibition. ( Whenever I  went for this type of events my main motive always to make more public interaction, because I love to know how people think about certain issues/problems of life,  how they feel when they got upset, I usually do this).  I went forward  and said " Hi" She said " Hello, shalini" I said " Vineet... (with  a pause), so you like paintings and all this artistic stuff?" I know this was a foolish question, but sometime it happen, we have to start with some foolish questions. She said: " Yes, I do paint.. Look... these are my paintings" Painting were good, I don't h...

I was in queue for admission formalities when I saw her first time. She was laughing with her friends, I  didn't  know why? But she looked pretty. This was my first day in new school, I  didn't  know her, but I wanted to know her. XI-D, only one class in the school in which new admissions are permitted. Lucky I was, the pretty  girl was also in same class. Soon we became very good friends. Friends … is it the good word to use for them, who broke your trust. During My college’s first year I met Asmita, she was very beautiful with heart. We were good friends, but each time, I just keep myself somewhat selfish, somewhat aware, somewhat in doubt, that she could also break my trust. Due to which, bad relationship. And soon with our mutual understanding we broke up, I said mutual understanding. But I know this, that broke was only because of me, only because my trust was broken once. Was this broke up fare? What is the mistake of Asmita, only that she wanted to tr...

I was in my 2 nd year of my college, when a classmate said : “ You are a big flirt “. I  couldn't  understand weather it a compliment or comment. But at that time I  couldn't  find. Sometime later, I realize it can be a compliment or comment, depends on how the person’s emotion and mood at that time. Later in college, I get this as a compliment most of time. But I never try to find, that weather I am a flirt or not ? Since now I have time to spent on wisdom and on self development, I can make effort to find this.  This week only when one of my office mate said “ You are flirt ..” ( with a smile :P ). I thought that I should find, why people said that I am a flirt. Although most of time I didn’t try to flirt. Sometime a third person said that you are flirting with her.   We’ve all had that moment . You know, that moment when you’re talking with your friend of the opposite sex, and suddenly a mutual acquaintance comes over and asks if you’re dating. The tw...

You've just met a really pretty girl, and you want to do the right things when you flirt with her. Or maybe you've been watching someone for a while and you want to get confident about approaching her. Try some of these guidelines to feel confident when you step up to flirt with a pretty girl. After you get a little bit of practice, you'll be a pro--and girls will love you for it!  This is not a way that you will surely  succeed, but there are some thing which girl usually like or feel more comfortable.  But surely one thing I will say, learn to respect girls.  Do flirt, but never make false promises or the promises which you can't make. Never hurt any  girl.. ohh never hurt anyone . Be prepared for rejection. It happens to everyone at one time or another. The important thing is to not dwell on negative experiences. Start off by smiling at her . Smile and notice her reaction, then, pick your strategy. If you don't know her, start off by ...