I am Sorry: Am helpless

I am Sorry, I am helpless. I can protest, shout slogans, post on facebook, change my dp, but is it really worthy. I don't find yet. Still 2 criminals are missing.  Politicians are busy scoring a point. Some people who specialize in “violence against women” have come up with another solution that involves sensitizing men to respect women. There will be a candle march somewhere and some people will shout slogans and then everyone will forget and wake up when the next rape happens. I'm wondering what is going through a rapist mind. I want this woman  and I can get away with it or max will go to jail for a few months provided I get caught. According to a tweet by Arvind Kejriwal, in 2012 there were 500 plus rape cases and none of the rapist got prosecuted. So we can run all the campaigns and do the candle light marches, unless there is fear of God in every potential rapist we cannot solve this problem.

I don't know how but we need to change the decision tree in a potential rapist mind to something like this. “I want this woman even if she doesn't want me. I will have her forcibly. But I will get caught. And I will be in Jail for the rest of my life. And if the public on the road catches me then I will get thrashed. Stop. Abort. Because there will be no workshop to go and attend to respect women.

These things come only from family, family values and education.  One of my friend said on facebook, there should be old education system to overcome this type of situation, But I guess Draupadi was also from an era, in which we assume that there was good education. So all things came  to a single solution, your own values and what you share with your children, I know , no one teach their children To rape, but we can teach them not to rape. 

Few weeks back I found saying to myself “It’s better that I don’t have family in delhi, considering  the way rape cases are happening in Delhi”. Today, I believe and question “why should I can not bring my family delhi  because of some sick minded people who are out on the Delhi street, roaming around like wild hounds, waiting to catch a piece of meat and tear it apart till they reach satiety?”  

What’s wrong with Indian men? I wonder if this question is rightly put. A country which for centuries has been venerated for its values, is that what we come down to? How hypocrite can a nation be which prides itself in the so called ‘Indian’ values on one hand and sees a massive rise in tortuous cases against women in its own capital city? I know I am Man, but these Man, make us to feel guilty. It’s always a few bad apples in the basket which spoil the lot that is good.  I am sorry whatever happened. But this is not the solution.   It’s time we Indians adjourned the Government of India to make the country a safer place for women and create measures to make the penalty for rape cases nothing less than a death punishment. The culprits need to be hanged for that is what they deserve!

But don't you think, in this democratic country we are feeling sorry, because we can't protect our sister, girlfriend,  wife, friends and our country people.  We have to find some solution, a perfect solution and soon.  I feel again sorry from whole men community, May god : " help my country.." 

A single line : Delhi is not a place worth  living ... Although we have to live....!!