Mr. Vins Blog

Hello Damini, I am VIneet, a common man, working and living in NCR.  This letter will probably never reach you, Damini. And if by chance it does, I hope when you're feeling a little better, you read it. Outside your room in the hospital, outside the corridors smelling of medicine, outside the operating theaters. Thousands of people are protesting, signing petitions, updating facebook statuses,changing whatsapp Pics, writing to the PM, Madam Sonia - all to bring justice to the accused. Some people want them hung. Some want them castrated. Some want them to be handed over to the public. And Some are still defending them..!!   Obviously, none of this will actually happen. I read in an article somewhere that death penalties can only be given to the rarest of rare cases . And (it continued to say) that unless the victim dies, it cannot be eligible for a rarest of rare case. And for their death penalty, I think, you don't deserve to die.  Kasab qualifies because he kil...

I am Sorry, I am helpless. I can protest, shout slogans, post on facebook, change my dp, but is it really worthy. I don't find yet. Still 2 criminals are missing.   Politicians are busy scoring a point. Some people who specialize in “ violence against women ” have come up with another solution that involves sensitizing men to respect women. There will be a  candle march  somewhere and some people will  shout slogans  and then everyone will forget and wake up when the next rape happens.  I'm  wondering what is going through a rapist mind. I want this woman  and I can get away with it or max will go to jail for a few months provided I get caught. According to a tweet by Arvind Kejriwal, in 2012 there were 500 plus rape cases and none of the rapist got prosecuted. So we can run all the campaigns and do the candle light marches, unless there is fear of God in every potential rapist we cannot solve this proble...

Today I was at Metro Station, Noida City Center. While I was waiting for the train, I saw a lady was crying. She had tears in her eyes, no one have time to see those tears, because its office time and everyone is busy in their own life. I came today 15-20 minutes early, so I guess I notice because I was not in hurry. I was watching her, and as the train came, everyone left the platform  I  asked the Lady : " Aunty , are you coming ". She said : " No ", and I left the place, but I wanted to talk  her, and in the train I realize that I should talk her. I changed train at next station and came back to Noida city center , just in  a hope that she will be there. Till that time 2 train already gone. I came back to platform and I saw the lady was there. I knew that this was not my business and I shouldn't talk anyone, but I don't know what happen at that time, I just felt I should talk her. Till the while I reached to her, another metro train had left. I asked  ...

Family.. I know its a noun which means  A group consisting of parents and children living  together in a household.   But do you feel, it is  family.  To me Family   means that they're always  going to be in your life no matter what. Family    means that they love you for who you are and will always stick by your side through thick and thin, dark , handsome or not... in each condition. A family will never leave you hanging. A family is a pack, a bond, a relation, they understand your feelings, your need without you express them.  This is your small world in this big world. A family: A place of unconditional love, respect,  understanding, forgiveness, tradition and a lots more.. from heart. No plans, no traps, no mind games.. here all  things are from heart,  from the bottom of heart.  How do you define family values? In our home family values are rules or ideals that, as a family, we agree to live by and s...

I was a friendly and fun loving person. I have a good number of friends and girl friends too. But I did one mistake I care my friends more than me.... and it sucks. I always compromise ..  each and every time I thought that next time they will think about me .. but I was a rural, dumb boy. I did not know the rules of society, I did not know that people around me were selfish. Any time went for movie, I only watch movie which my friend like, because when I suggest something, no one is here who can give importance to my words, and I thought next time they will.  They never called me, each time I called them. They only told what happen to  them, they don't care how I am. And the whole thing was going on. Due to which I was in stress, in full stress... I think anyone will. I don't want to show any negative attitude, and things happening around me, are making me more weak. I couldn't concentrate on studies, career, family anything.  But one day I watch some videos Dale...

People can find themselves in unhappy relationships and unpleasant circumstances if they don't know the signs of healthy and unhealthy relationships. It's important to know the signs of a healthy relationship, so you know when to invest more time and effort in a relationship and when it's time to end it. A healthy relationship can be defined as much more than one that's free of verbal, physical or sexual abuse. Trust: You can't build a healthy relationship without trust. It's the key ingredient to having a good relationship with friends, family members and romantic partners. If your partner tells you the truth and you do the same, then you probably trust each other. Many relationships fall prey to jealousy, insecurity and dishonesty. Someone who doesn't feel confident might always question the relationship and the other person's actions and words which can become draining on a relationship Balance of Power: Relationships that are unhealthy a...