Sometime Before...!!

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Sometime before, I was beaten because I was a North Indian staying in Mumbai. Yes I know it’s my fault.
Sometime before, I was harassed because I was a north east Indian, staying in Delhi. Yes I know it’s my fault.
Sometime before, I got jail, because I said Bombay. Yes I know it’s a CRIME.
Sometime before, some guys punch me, I was celebrating VDay. Yes I know it’s a CRIME.
Sometime before, some guys again punch me, because I support LGBT. Yes I know it’s a crime.
Sometime before, I was raped, because I wore jeans. Yes I know it’s my fault. If I am a girl I shouldn’t wear jeans.
Sometime before, I was killed in domestic violence. Yes it’s my fault.
Sometime before, when I was 4 year old girl, I was raped. Yes, it’s my fault. How? I don’t know.. they told me that it’s girl’s fault.
Sometime before, I got jailed because of fake Rape Case. Yes I know if I am a Man it’s my fault.
Sometime before, I got jailed for false dowry/domestic violence, yes I know if I am a Man it’s my fault.
Sometime before, I was told that India will get black money soon, and later it was called “CHUNAVI JOOMLA”. Yes it was my fault that I trust them.
Sometime before, a man fought for LOKPAL, I support him. Then he fought for CM chair. Yes it was my fault.
Sometime before, My father got expires in ambulance, because traffic was on halt, as a minister was on that route. Yes it was my fault.
Sometime before, I got married at age of 10. Because marriage was more important than education. Yes it’s my fault.
Sometime before, I was 12, and I was working on railway station, factories etc., because I didn’t have money to get education. Yes It’s my fault.
Sometime before, my mother expired in a civil hospital, because I don’t have money for a private hospital.
Sometime before, my brother was killed on road, as he was sleeping on the footpath.
Sometime before, I can’t go to party, because it’s unsafe after 8PM in my city.
Sometime before, I asked my sister about her location frequently, because I know she is not safe in between us. Yes it’s OUR fault.
Sometime before, in 80% of rape cases, the relatives were involved. Yes It was our fault.

There are a number of Sometime before….!!!
I don’t know what we are doing.
If I will not support BeefBan, then I am a worst Hindu.
If I don’t have quota, then I shouldn’t try for a government job.
If I attend a Roast event, then I am destroying my cultural values.
If I fall in love with a girl of my Village, then it’s a crime. #HonourKilling
If I watch PK, I am insulting Lord Shiva. 

I am a true Hindu, and I liked the PK movie much. I grab what they want to deliver.

Means, look… I don’t have right to speak, right to reallocate, right to get proper education, food , medical, blah blah…!!
Every time I watch any news channel, always I found very sensible talks…!! Ye bill wo Bill.. ye modify wo modify..!!

But still no GOOD rape Bill, no good domestic violence bill ( in which both men and women get justice).
No Education, no ban on child labor, no security, no medical etc.
Guys, our government is very busy. They have lots of important task to do…
Like BANS:  beefban, roastban, documentary ban, YE ban WO ban, shaadi ban, bachche ban, bachche 5 se kam ban, jeans ban, same village shaadi ban, Vday ban, pyaaz ban, Aalloo ban, tamatar ban, lokpal ban, ye ban wo ban….
Like Ghar Wapsi, Like Free water to get votes, Like in deciding how may children we have… many more.

I am not sure, I can do my part or not. But surely I will try my best to make a change in the society.
I think only Education is the tool which we can use to improve our society.
Education… Moral Education..!!
Degrees are not sufficient. So let’s make our contribution…
As one of my best friend always says:  Each one Teach One.
And of course we have more than half of us, Educated.  Let’s start here, without waiting for any other CHUNAVI JOOMLA.


I know grammar is bad, writing is not good. But still I will write. If you want to help, please mail me (saddyan2@gmail.com ) the mistakes ( PS: with solution ).  

No offence to anyone. If any sentiments get hurted, I am really sorry. No intent to blame any particular. Just a thought. 

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