Things you should care about while Proposing

Hey.. its propose day, so you have finally decided to propose, you are very sure that you will just get one shot to say how and what you feel about the person.  You want to do it in a way that makes you a hopeful yes answer but if you have messed it badly, there are slim chances of getting it right later. Moreover, you might end up sending wrong signals to your beloved by wrong ways of proposing and bring a disgrace to yourself. Hence there are some big no- no settings and situations that needs to be cleared before proposing your beloved. To make sure that you make it special and emerge triumphant, do it in the right way.I am not a perfect one, but what most of people advise and what I feel from my experience,  I am sharing with you. Please if you are seriously want a yes, at least don't do the following things.

• NEVER propose over the phone or the Internet. It is the worst you can do, as it is too impersonal. Loving is all about expressing your feelings, which do not come out over the phone or the Internet. It shows you are not very serious about the whole thing. Because during these you can't show the person you're feeling, at that point the pitch and intensity of your voice, your body language play a great role. So never ever propose on a phone, sms, emails or any type of communication where you are not there.

• DO NOT propose in front of a large crowd. You wouldn't want to embarrass your beloved and then get embarrassed yourself if he/she says no. Although some of you may not agree with this, but in most of cases it is true, and in India more than most cases.

• DO NOT be too humorous. It will seem that you are not serious about this proposal. You can be humorous while talking to girls, but when it comes to propose a girl you have to be quite serious. Being too humorous while taking a serious decision spoils the mood and the ambience and blows up the whole thing.

• DO NOT forget your manners and etiquettes while proposing. Don't propose while eating or while the person is at work. Give respect and you will get respect.

• DO NOT propose when you don't mean it. Many people propose in the spur of the moment and then later regret their action. Do not give someone hopes and then smash it all at once. If you are proposing, you should be very truthful with your words, I always play with words, which leads a number of break up. So please don't play with words. Make a simple and trustworthy commitment.  

• DON'T overuse the prop while you are proposing as it might get on nerves of the other person. Keep it simple and straightforward but do it romantically. Romantically enough that it please the person, the person can feel what you are feeling, if he/she is okay with your physical contact than it will be more good.

• It is absolutely WRONG to ask your friend or her friend to convey the message on your behalf. It won't get you a positive reply and you might end up getting a no for your answer. Hence express your feelings, yourselves. This goes for both guys and girls. Infact when I was in my college, I asked my friend to convey a message to her friend, whom one of my friend love very much. The girl rejected and my friend whom I said she also got angry with  me, we didn't even talk more than 2 years, and I loved her, but till that time I didn't propose her. Whatever I can't blame my friend who asked me to do same, because I did. So neither asked someone to do something like this nor you should do.

• DON'T mix drinking and proposing as will only make a mockery of you with an obvious no. Mixing drinking with every possible thing is equally bad.

• It is a BAD IDEA to propose right after you had a fight as it is the clear case of wrong timing. You might have taken it in a lighter manner but the emotion of anger, frustration and hurt must be running high in the other person. Because at that time 99.9% chances are of BIG NO. Ohh please don't do for that .01%. Be practical. 

While proposing be real as you can, each word of your proposal should be from your heart, the person in front should feel this. Love is God, so don't try to cheat. Be original. But you should well dressed. For guys at least shave ( it is compulsory, most of girl don't like rough look ). For girls, ohh I think your regular makeup and one smile is enough for proposing.  So have a good propose day. Hope you get your right person soon.