Are you in a Relationship or Relationshit ?

My boyfriend/girlfriend don't respect me .. My love don't give me time... I am not feeling happy when my love is with me... Do you need friend's sympathy for your relationship...!! And many other question are here which can figure out that whether you are in a healthy relationship or not. This is not a test or something, this is only self analyzation. This is only to figure out whether  you are happy or not.

Answer the below questions and find out the truth about your “REAL”ationship. And please be true to yourself.

1. Do you feel afraid to speak your mind, express how you feel or ask for something you need?

2. Does your partner tell you are “stupid”, “crazy”, or “inadequate” when you disagree?

3. Does your partner make fun of your ideas or opinions?

4.  Is your partner bossy and/or try to control every detail in your relationship?

5. Is your partner extremely demanding and jealous?

6. Do you often feel guilty and second-guess your choices in friends, social activities, jobs, etc. because of your partner’s negative comments about these choices?

7. Are you afraid of your partner’s temper, feel like you walk on eggshells, and/or are constantly monitoring what you say and do as an attempt to avoid making him/her angry?

8. Do you find yourself making excuses for your partner and justifying his/her actions to others?

9. Do you feel more “free” to be yourself when he/she isn't around?

10. Does your partner throw or break things when angry?

11. Does your partner try to control where you go and what you do?

12. Does your partner pressure you to engage in sexual activities that you are uncomfortable with and put you down if you refuse?

13. Does your partner threaten to kill or hurt him/herself if you have a differing opinion, try to end the relationship, or do something they disapprove of? ( If this is yes, consider it more than 2 yes)

14. Does your partner try to make you feel guilty for having a “life” (i.e. friends, interests) apart from the relationship?

15. Does your partner criticize your family and friends and ask you to stop seeing them?

16. Do you feel that you have changed, lost touch with who you are, or become someone else in order to be with your partner?

17. Have your friends or family expressed concern about your relationship and/or your well-being?

18. Does your partner know how to make you feel bad and use it often to hurt you?

19. Have you lost touch with your friends, and only hang out with your partner’s friends?

20. Does your partner try to control you with anger and guilt, or lash out when you don’t do exactly what he or she wants?

21. Has your partner ever hit, slapped, punched, shoved, grabbed or shook you?

22. Has your partner ever threatened to hurt you, take important things away, or leave you?

23. Has your partner ever called you names, put you down, insulted you, and/or embarrassed you in front of others?

24. Do you feel like you never get anywhere when you try to communicate?

25. Do you spend large amounts of time preoccupied with what you've said or how it’s interpreted?

If you have answered yes, to more than 10 of these questions you could be involved in an unhealthy relationship. 

Remember that healthy relationships require the following -

• mutual respect and consideration for each other’s needs

• caring about each other’s feelings

• sharing work

• sharing of important decisions

• supporting each other in difficult times

• open and honest communication

• trusting one another

• intimacy and willingness to compromise

• a mutual commitment to work and grow together

Don’t ever compromise with your happiness. You only have one life, make the right choices. Recognize the signs of abuse in your relationship and take help from our experts. You deserve the BEST and at the same time also remember that you are also a Partner, all things what you are expecting, your partner also do. So you have also some responsibilities, so try to make them fulfill, because if your relationship is not healthy, it doesn't mean that it is only just because of your partner. Have a Healthy relationship.

Keep Smiling :)