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My boyfriend/girlfriend don't respect me .. My love don't give me time... I am not feeling happy when my love is with me... Do you need friend's sympathy for your relationship...!! And many other question are here which can figure out that whether you are in a healthy relationship or not. This is not a test or something, this is only self analyzation. This is only to figure out whether  you are happy or not. Answer the below questions and find out the truth about your “REAL”ationship. And please be true to yourself. 1. Do you feel afraid to speak your mind, express how you feel or ask for something you need? 2. Does your partner tell you are “stupid”, “crazy”, or “inadequate” when you disagree? 3. Does your partner make fun of your ideas or opinions? 4.  Is your partner bossy and/or try to control every detail in your relationship? 5. Is your partner extremely demanding and jealous? 6. Do you often feel guilty and second-guess your choices...

One story, this will defiantly make some changes in your life, at least ... Some of you.  One of my known share this with  me, he is working in stress management in some company. He takes regular session on stress management and also conduct some workshop for same. One day he  began his class by holding up a glass with some water in it. He held it up for all to see & asked the students “How much do you think this glass weighs?” '50gms!’….. ’100gms!’ …..’125 gms’ …the students answered. .  He said : “I really don’t know unless I weigh it,but, my question is:   What would happen if I held it up like this for a few minutes?" "Nothing" …..the students said. He said  : "Ok what would happen if I held it up like this for an hour?" ‘Your arm would begin to ache’ said one of the student. “You’re right, now what would happen if I held it for a day?” “Your arm could go numb; you might have severe muscle stress & paralysis & have to go to hospital ...

Life is not about a single fact or a set of fact. But human always try to figure out some of those fact, the same I do. Here some question which will make you to think what are your priorities, as a human how you are and lots more..!!  When you have a little spare time to think, review these interesting and thought provoking questions... and  if you still have a little more spare time, share with us your thoughts, answers, and questions....!!!  Comment those or mail me at saddyan2@gmail.com If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake?   Do you hurt someone, who hurt you ? What is the difference between being alive and truly living?   Why do religions that support love cause so many wars?   Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend?   If happiness was the national currency, what kind of work would make you rich?   Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you a...

Nobody on this earth can describe what happiness truly is, yet everybody claims to have experienced it.  Why do you think it’s like that? It’s because the majority of people on this planet  don’t understand   the psychology behind happiness. People believe that happiness is acquired from gaining things and that happiness is directly correlated with what they do in their lives. They feel that happiness is just like the other cause and effects in this world, and that a certain thing that they acquire or gain will in effect bring them happiness. They are so wrong. Happiness is something which is not quantifiable. You can be the richest person on earth or the poorest yet your levels of happiness could be the same.  The reason why?   Happiness is a mentality  it isn’t something which can be bought or purchased, it’s something which must be learnt and cultured; it’s all in your head.  This takes us to the question of the article: You a...