How I fell in Love

I am sharing a story of understanding here, yesterday one of my friend share with  me. All the names are changed. Kirti, one of my best friend, we were very good friend from last one year and wee share a lots of things with each other. Kirti was in some kind of love from last 4 months, she was in noida for her training and she likes a guy from her Hometown, Karnal. She studying in some college in Noida, B.tech Final year.  During the campus placements, 3 month back, she got selected a MNC, she was very happy. She called Aniket ( the guy she likes ), his reaction was totally unbelievable, he was very happy for her success. As kirti told me, the words which came out from his mouth at that time were really pleasant and unforgettable.
Kirti planned with him that she will come to Karnal tomorrow and then they will celebrate. Kirti didn't tell at her home that she will come tomorrow, and in early morning she was in train for karnal.  She was living in karnal, and there is a station called Bajida, befora karnal. Sometime train stop here and sometime didnt. So aniket was waiting for Kirti at Bajida station, and as you know for some express train the local train have to wait some time. So the train was waiting for some train 6-7 km before Bajida station, and aniket was waiting at bajida,  after 40-50 min, the train starts and expected, the train didn't stop at bajida station, although Kirti saw Aniket and they wish each other and Aniket shout
: " See you at Karnal staion ".
When Kirti was at karnal staion, she step down from train and found that her father is in front of him. Actually her father called Kirti in morning itself and he got her number switched off, so he called one of her friend, who told that she is on the way to karnal. So her father thought that she want to give surprise to us, let we give surprise to her.  Kirti was confused, how all this happen. She asked her father, he said : " Am your father, I know your each move , and laughed " .
Aniket called her and asked her where are you, come out of station. Kirti said : " My father is with me "
Aniket thought , she was kidding and was waiting outside, with Cake and tow tickets of movie. He also booked a table in Noor Mahal ( one of famous Hotel in Karnal ), but as kirti came out from station,  he was shocked, and without making any reaction, he left that place.
Later in the evening when girl called her, she felt sorry for this, but aniket.. he didn't allowed her to fell sorry, he was so gentle with her that he told her that her family is before him and you should spent time with  them also, I have some surprise for you, but they also have and its not about you than I love you, Its about your nature, face, behavior and your principles.. and these all are due to your family. So give time your family too, we have a long life ahead, I was little disappoint, but happy too, that your father give you wonderful surprise.

Kirti said me :" that is the only day I fell really in love with him, and I have much respect for him now, he sweet heart and he understand me, he have no problem if I hang out with friends, family. He is not someone who expect a lots of call, time, gift or anything. He is who always want to give. Although we talk daily, but its not like some traditional people, that why you are on waiting and all that. "

There can be a number of thought that can travel in the boy's mind at station:  1. The girl called her father, because she didn't want to celebrate with me.
2. I did much expenses and she because of her family is not giving time to me :(
3. When she called her, he can abuse about her family, because they ruin all.
4. He can make force girl to meet her that day only.
And a number of other too.. which are happening in our near on daily life. Due to which relations are becoming bitter and with  lack of understanding. Because of less space the journey of love end soon... And this is not done friends...!!
I know this is not a special story, but this story have a number of beautiful lesson. Understand the condition of circumstances of your lover, never forget your family, family and love both have same place in your life, you have to make both happy. The true love is not who loves you because you are rich, beautiful, stylish, nice figure... the true one is who love because of inner beauty, your ethics, your values. No doubt look is one parameter, but I guess it not much important parameter.

Do love your family, yourself, your partner, give time all your valuable relations, because all are important and worthy. Keep smiling.

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