Embrace your single status with a smile instead of crying over it

Being single is not a crime. So stop crying over it. In a hurry to settle down, you need not opt for Miss Wrong/ Mr Wrong .Wait for the right one. Here are a few reasons why you should be happy being solo, being SINGLE.

Are you single and you feel shy when you see most of couple in your group. Then this article is only for you. Single and in a relationship are just titles. Your heart determines your true relationship status. I met a number of couples, what I find most of them are temporary, there is no true love, only affection and intimation. I am not saying that every couple have same feeling, but a number of time I saw, that a person in a hurry of being in relationship( due to society, friends group or many other reasons) chose a wrong person. So if you are single, you have some advantages, and the main thing is you should be happy, there are some reasons, why you should happy being single too.

All the time is yours
When you're single, all of your time is yours. You can go wherever you want and do whatever you feel like doing without worrying about what someone else wants to do. Do things you love to do. Go for shopping with your friends or pamper yourself with the most soothing facial treatment ( for girls), play games and enjoy boy's night-out (boys), . Make the most of your time.
It's not always lovey-dovey
When you're single, you may feel sad when you look at another couple walking hand-in-hand and you wish you had someone to hold your hand too. But not every couple is happy. There are ups and downs in every relationship and it's not always like you see it in the movies. There are moments when challenges arise and you don't know whether you should continue with the relationship or not. It's easy to miss what you don't have, but keep in mind that there is an equal number of unhappy couples.
Wait for your Dream Girl / Mr Right
Congratulate yourself on being single. It's only because you are waiting for that right man/woman instead of settling for anyone. Instead of settling for someone who's just OK, you have the chance to find someone who is worth your love. Being single means you're ready to mingle with that charming guy/girl who could be your perfect match.
Love what you have
Human beings always crave for what they lack instead of enjoying what they have. Singles want a relationship while people in relationships long for freedom. This is what makes you unhappy. Date, flirt and meet new people as you go through the process of selecting the right one.
Work on yourself
Being in a relationship takes up a lot of your time. Use your solo status to work on yourself. Focusing on your career, education, hobbies and what you want to be as a person. Make use of opportunities, learn more and more and as the time once gone never comes back. Take an art class, learn a new language, exercise and work on the skills you wish to master. Do what you want, improve yourself, think about yourself.

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